Signs if Your Boyfriend Really Loves You

Does he loves me? This is always my question and maybe all women in the world. Unfortunately this question is very hard to answer and sometime the answer that we got is incorrect. Women and men are not taught how to love or how to identify true love. Many men or most men do not speak or show on what is going on in their minds, there are signs to know what he really feels for you. Men give these signs so that women understand what he feels for her. Men generally do not speak because they are afraid that women aren't feeling the same way.

How will you really know if he really loves you? Many will tell you that all you need to see is that he cares for you, he spends lots of money on you, he treats you like a royalty, and he tells you that he loves you. The truth is that, while all these behaviors are nice, they don't necessarily give you the whole perspective. A man can treat you like a queen until he gets what he wants and then tire of making the effort and expense. These are all dating and courtship behaviors that are expected by society to one degree or another.


Here are the few things we should know if the man really loves you.


1) Does he respect you and demonstrate that respect in every thing he says and does? Respect is a fundamental requirement for the long term success or any relationship; including a romantic relationship.

2) Is he interested in the things that are happening in your life? Does he always talk about himself but never ask how you are doing. This can be a real sign that he does not care or isn't interested in you.

3) Does he pick up the phone to call you and see how you are doing because if he does this means he really cares for you. Make sure that you do not find yourself calling him and when he calls you back he'll say he does call you. He has to be calling you and when you are not expecting it. Is he concerned about your well being and wants to make you happy at all costs?


4) Does he ever mention to you about finally meeting his family and wishing to meet your parents as well? If he does then he is really in love with you because if he is not interested to you he wouldn't even bother to meet your family nor he would bother to introduce you to his parents.

5) Is he touching you and hold you when he is with you. Does he show you affection when you are alone? This can be a real big sign he does care for you because he will show you that he loves you with his touch.

6) Finally does he tell you he loves you? without you saying it to him first. Does he plans his future with you? If he does then you are important to him and he is definitely in love with you and wants to spend the rest of his life for you. He would mostly talk of living together, marriage or kids.

Why Love is so Confusing?

Love is the most fulfilling and desirable feeling in a man's life. Everyone one to love and be love. Yet, why there are so many debate about love. Love become so confusing , but why?

Love is the most highly over used and misused word in English language. It is applied and attached to any kind of human reaction and experience. Do you really love chocolate, a particular breakfast cereal or model of automobile? We are living in a consumaristic world. Many Advertisement tell us that we do and our off-handed comments or preferences indicate that we do. But, is that what we really what we want or are the advertisements and cultural clichés we use adding to our confusion about love?

We are living in a society that objectifies on everything that we need to do. We are losing our own self to discover who we really are. Because the media are telling us that appearance are more important: To have a good looks, a handsomely pretty and expensive car, a signature wrist, a designer clothes, purses, bags and shoes. That's what the world want us to be. Though I can't see any bad in it especially if we are guided good enough by our parents. But we are losing are own objective because we see love as like the object that is in our surrounding. We fail to see and experience the real essence of love. We easily fall in love as if we are walking on the water that there is no end but once we lost everything. There we don't have a foundation and the love that we thought we have banished easily because what we felt before was not really love. But a love that we set on our own. Without realizing that love just come in a mysterious way.

I remember the song: Love moves in mysterious way.

There are so many tv series now about complicated relationship. The last TV series I've seen was about a young man inlove with a young woman in town whom the girl inlove with another man. Still, At the same time another beautiful young woman, who use to be married to the nephew professes love for the older leading male character and her older brother is in love with the first beautiful young woman. Complicated? Yes. Confusing?it is all just TV drama and not to be taken seriously. Never-the-less, it adds to the confusion about love. It distorts our point of view and understanding of what love is? On the tv series love is about possession. The plots turn around one character having or possessing another, losing possession and regaining it again. People become love objects and this model of love and relationships is broadcast to millions, for hundreds of hours every week. Most of us know that what we are seeing isn’t love but none the less we are left confused. We know this isn’t love but what is it?

Love is the most profound and fulfilling experience humans can have. We must protect our heart and our love.

Take a Hold on the One you Love

Love? Love comes only once in a life time, so once it come do not let it pass by.
When love knock on your heart let it in immidiately because it will come and go once a person isn't ready yet to accept it. Once you didn't grab it you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Do not let it happen to you. If you realize that you are inlove with each other make it sure that your relationships will work. Do everthing that you can to enjoy each other company.

Love every moment that you both have together and let each other know just how much you love each other. With my boyfriend I make it sure that he new what I felt toward him. Before I found it hard to commit to someone because I have taken care of myself my whole life. And I always protect myself from heartache. However, when I open my heart with this guy I realize that love is all that matter and I accepted him being who he is. I believe that love is the greatest force in a person's life. When you lost someone you love as if half of your life was gone. Now, with the man I love I always find time to talk to him and make him feel that he's the man I love and cherish.


Love will stand the test of time if people work at it. Nothing will ever comes this easy but its worth the work by both people. Love really is the greatest feeling between a man and a woman. Love always unite both people together. Respect for each other is one of the main ingredient in a relationship. I hope once you find the one you'll love keep him/her and don't let it go. I found mine, my Francesco, mio angelo azzurro.

How to Nurture a Relationship

Have you ever ask yourself what to consider in nurturing a relationship to be? You must understand what are your needs and desires from another person, and what are you willing to give them and what are you willing to give up. This case, you can see as early in your first dates, if you wish to continue and work towards a future together, and if the other person feels the same as like how you feel.

Nurturing a relationship means reaching outside yourself. It requires commitment by both individuals and a determination to ensure that the relationship endures. Displaying your love for your partner is one way to nurture your relationships, and it can be done in many ways.

Once you have decided to have an official relationship, you both need to remember what brought the two of you together in the first place. For instance, what attracted you to each other both physically and emotionally? What do you admire about his or her personality? This will help not taking the other for granted, which can often happen after two people have been together for a long time. This does not mean the love is fading, but it does mean that there is lack of effort. People tend to get lazy after a while, because they feel comfortable and safe. This problem can be solved when both people are willing to make the time and effort.

Most women hate the video games and other sport but if you you want to understand your boyfriend or your husband why don't you try to sit there in boredom watching him play? I know a lot of girls complained about video games and other games online. But if you try, one day without knowing it you'll enjoy watching him play and then you'll want to play as well. And certainly you'll find it fun.

By keeping an open mind, we are not only broadened our horizons, but also became closer to our love because we went the extra mile to nurture the relationship. Give it a try ladies...and guys too!

When we receive support and inspiration from our mate, we can face anything!

Because You Love me Francesco....My Love

This song is dedicated to my boyfriend Francesco R., who is my inspiration, my joy, my love, my thoughtful and full of surprises, loving boyfriend I ever had. I can say I love him more than anything in this world, though I don't know if he believe on it; but sure thing he will. Like the message of this song I'm thankful because he love me. He is very patience and understanding especially if I have tantrums. Grazie amore mio per amarmi.

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What is Love?

A simple question but the most diffficult to answer.How do we really define Love?Why if this is the question we are having difficulty in answering it? There are so many meaning about love.In the bible Love is the primary commandment. "Thou shall no other God besides me and thou shall love your neighbor as yourself". In the letter of Apostle Paul to the Corinthians He says:Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. - 1 Corinthians 13:5-7
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Pre- Marital Sex

We will find it on the bible that Sex outside marriage is considered as pornography. It is a sin. Sin is Sin.Like it or not, premarital sex = SIN. According to St. Paul to his letter to the Corinthians, The sexually immoral do not inherit the kingdom of God (I Cor. 6:9, 10; Eph. 5:5-7)!

• Adultery is wrong — Exodus 20:14

• Sex with a prostitute is wrong — 1 Corinthians 6:15-17

Sex is designed for only one kind of committed relationship: holy matrimony. When a husband and a wife have sexual intercourse, something happens to the two of them, something that changes them at the deepest level. A man and a woman are bound together body and soul. And this bond is never supposed to be separated. (Can you see why divorce is so devastating?)

In other words, sex isn't just physical, and it's not a trivial act that feels good for a few seconds and then is over for good. Sex involves a couple's body, mind and emotions in an activity that is intended to continue for a lifetime.


Sex is the smallest word that causes the most problem. And if you don't believe it look up the statistics of children born to single mothers in the world, and oh wait what about abortion? Truth is we are making a nation of sex crazed retards who seek only sex anywhere they can find it, and they don't care who they harm, who's reputation they destroy, or who's character they diminish...This is sex. This is often time use for comfort by men most especially if they were vulnerable, or sad. When they found a woman who looks mighty tasty then even his head is screaming at him to stop, Yet, he is beyond hearing at that point. He's sad and want to feel better and he will spend the night with the woman even he doesn't like ... and regret it in the morning.. And God forbid what if she gets pregnant (and this is where he start praying isn't it?)

Premarital sex, for sure, has more commitment that prostitution. But it can be an even bigger deception. The two can think they are really giving themselves to each other, but inevitably they are holding something back. The very setup implies less than complete commitment and typically they are keeping from each other the gift of fertility. He has a fear he might make her a mom and even worse, himself a dad! Not ready for that yet.

I am convinced that most girls do prize [virginity], they face many and great temptations to give it away. Some do not want to be considered "odd." Others want the feeling now. Many think they can use sex to get love. Many give in to their boyfriend's pleas because they do not want to lose his "love." When we mix sex and love, we confuse the concepts of giving and taking. Personal selfish reasons cause premarital sex to take, but sometimes the taking may be confused as giving. If sex signifies the "love" then what happen to her/his prrevious relationships? Then if she/he did, how do you know if she/he really loves you?

But have you ( girls) ever think why man should buy a cow when he can get a milk for free? Ridiculous isn't it? Women never think that guys are just using them to fulfill his physical lust or maybe both.

Regret After Pre-Marital Sex?

According to psychologists: One of the most painful, and yet overlooked aspects of sex outside marriage is emotional scars. What might start as fun, exciting and romantic can end in a lifetime of painful memories.Premarital sex always causes scars! … The scars will have an effect on you years later. In the passion of the moment, you do not think about the implications and consequences which reach far beyond that moment. You do not want to think about the consequences… Sexual relationships many years later, with the husband and with the wife you love so dearly, are going to be affected by the illicit and immoral sexual activity which took place before you were married.

When sexual desires are aroused, sometimes even the flimsiest arguments can push all this reasoning to one side. " About finding out if we are compatible" ? Generations of human experience assures that (to be blunt) it will fit. But more to the point is that we are not a piece of merchandise that needs to be tested. Part of the self giving proper to marriage is the freedom and the humility to learn in that area.According to Pope John Paul II, Love and Responsibility.

Romance may not rule or dominate (Gen. 29:31, 35); romantic love does not make any thing legitimate