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Truelove and Responsibility: January 2009

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Love at First Sight, Does it Really Exist?

Do you believe in love at first sight? A quick glance, a friendly smile - sometimes it clicks immediately between two persons. Other people take a bit longer to fall in love. Are you the kind of person to fall in love at first sight?

Eye-lock with a guitar, anyone?

If you haven’t experienced it for yourself, you probably don’t believe that Love at First Sight is real. There are plenty of skeptics who chalk it all up to lust or infatuation and refuse to believe that you can really fall in love with someone the first moment you see them.

Scientists study our brain activity and say that it’s quite possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe.

Some people claim that it happened to them and it was like you raise your head, meet those eyes and tell yourself “It is He/She!”. Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. In some case we won’t even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on us.

There are many factors act in the situation of falling in love from the first sight. These are our ideals, intuition or “fast logic”, imagination, or if when someone meets our unconscious criteria etc. When you fall in love at the first sight you are usually ready and willing to fall in love. Less possibility that it will happen if you are tired, stressed, solving problems in you mind and believe in false ideas.

Love at first sight is a myth to some, and a matter of fact to others. I know couples who have been in love since the moment they met and never looked back. I also have friends who instantaneously fall head over heels for lover after lover, only to have each new liaison flounder and fail. Is the phenomenon of love at first sight really love? Is it lust? or Is it something in between?