Why Love is so Confusing?

Love is the most fulfilling and desirable feeling in a man's life. Everyone one to love and be love. Yet, why there are so many debate about love. Love become so confusing , but why?

Love is the most highly over used and misused word in English language. It is applied and attached to any kind of human reaction and experience. Do you really love chocolate, a particular breakfast cereal or model of automobile? We are living in a consumaristic world. Many Advertisement tell us that we do and our off-handed comments or preferences indicate that we do. But, is that what we really what we want or are the advertisements and cultural clichés we use adding to our confusion about love?

We are living in a society that objectifies on everything that we need to do. We are losing our own self to discover who we really are. Because the media are telling us that appearance are more important: To have a good looks, a handsomely pretty and expensive car, a signature wrist, a designer clothes, purses, bags and shoes. That's what the world want us to be. Though I can't see any bad in it especially if we are guided good enough by our parents. But we are losing are own objective because we see love as like the object that is in our surrounding. We fail to see and experience the real essence of love. We easily fall in love as if we are walking on the water that there is no end but once we lost everything. There we don't have a foundation and the love that we thought we have banished easily because what we felt before was not really love. But a love that we set on our own. Without realizing that love just come in a mysterious way.

I remember the song: Love moves in mysterious way.

There are so many tv series now about complicated relationship. The last TV series I've seen was about a young man inlove with a young woman in town whom the girl inlove with another man. Still, At the same time another beautiful young woman, who use to be married to the nephew professes love for the older leading male character and her older brother is in love with the first beautiful young woman. Complicated? Yes. Confusing?it is all just TV drama and not to be taken seriously. Never-the-less, it adds to the confusion about love. It distorts our point of view and understanding of what love is? On the tv series love is about possession. The plots turn around one character having or possessing another, losing possession and regaining it again. People become love objects and this model of love and relationships is broadcast to millions, for hundreds of hours every week. Most of us know that what we are seeing isn’t love but none the less we are left confused. We know this isn’t love but what is it?

Love is the most profound and fulfilling experience humans can have. We must protect our heart and our love.