Do you believe in love at first sight? A quick glance, a friendly smile - sometimes it clicks immediately between two persons. Other people take a bit longer to fall in love. Are you the kind of person to fall in love at first sight?
Eye-lock with a guitar, anyone?
If you haven’t experienced it for yourself, you probably don’t believe that Love at First Sight is real. There are plenty of skeptics who chalk it all up to lust or infatuation and refuse to believe that you can really fall in love with someone the first moment you see them.
Scientists study our brain activity and say that it’s quite possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe.
Some people claim that it happened to them and it was like you raise your head, meet those eyes and tell yourself “It is He/She!”. Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. In some case we won’t even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on us.
There are many factors act in the situation of falling in love from the first sight. These are our ideals, intuition or “fast logic”, imagination, or if when someone meets our unconscious criteria etc. When you fall in love at the first sight you are usually ready and willing to fall in love. Less possibility that it will happen if you are tired, stressed, solving problems in you mind and believe in false ideas.
Love at first sight is a myth to some, and a matter of fact to others. I know couples who have been in love since the moment they met and never looked back. I also have friends who instantaneously fall head over heels for lover after lover, only to have each new liaison flounder and fail. Is the phenomenon of love at first sight really love? Is it lust? or Is it something in between?
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Saturday, November 22, 2008
Signs if Your Boyfriend Really Loves You
Does he loves me? This is always my question and maybe all women in the world. Unfortunately this question is very hard to answer and sometime the answer that we got is incorrect. Women and men are not taught how to love or how to identify true love. Many men or most men do not speak or show on what is going on in their minds, there are signs to know what he really feels for you. Men give these signs so that women understand what he feels for her. Men generally do not speak because they are afraid that women aren't feeling the same way.
How will you really know if he really loves you? Many will tell you that all you need to see is that he cares for you, he spends lots of money on you, he treats you like a royalty, and he tells you that he loves you. The truth is that, while all these behaviors are nice, they don't necessarily give you the whole perspective. A man can treat you like a queen until he gets what he wants and then tire of making the effort and expense. These are all dating and courtship behaviors that are expected by society to one degree or another.
Here are the few things we should know if the man really loves you.
1) Does he respect you and demonstrate that respect in every thing he says and does? Respect is a fundamental requirement for the long term success or any relationship; including a romantic relationship.
2) Is he interested in the things that are happening in your life? Does he always talk about himself but never ask how you are doing. This can be a real sign that he does not care or isn't interested in you.
3) Does he pick up the phone to call you and see how you are doing because if he does this means he really cares for you. Make sure that you do not find yourself calling him and when he calls you back he'll say he does call you. He has to be calling you and when you are not expecting it. Is he concerned about your well being and wants to make you happy at all costs?
4) Does he ever mention to you about finally meeting his family and wishing to meet your parents as well? If he does then he is really in love with you because if he is not interested to you he wouldn't even bother to meet your family nor he would bother to introduce you to his parents.
5) Is he touching you and hold you when he is with you. Does he show you affection when you are alone? This can be a real big sign he does care for you because he will show you that he loves you with his touch.
6) Finally does he tell you he loves you? without you saying it to him first. Does he plans his future with you? If he does then you are important to him and he is definitely in love with you and wants to spend the rest of his life for you. He would mostly talk of living together, marriage or kids.
How will you really know if he really loves you? Many will tell you that all you need to see is that he cares for you, he spends lots of money on you, he treats you like a royalty, and he tells you that he loves you. The truth is that, while all these behaviors are nice, they don't necessarily give you the whole perspective. A man can treat you like a queen until he gets what he wants and then tire of making the effort and expense. These are all dating and courtship behaviors that are expected by society to one degree or another.
Here are the few things we should know if the man really loves you.
1) Does he respect you and demonstrate that respect in every thing he says and does? Respect is a fundamental requirement for the long term success or any relationship; including a romantic relationship.
2) Is he interested in the things that are happening in your life? Does he always talk about himself but never ask how you are doing. This can be a real sign that he does not care or isn't interested in you.
3) Does he pick up the phone to call you and see how you are doing because if he does this means he really cares for you. Make sure that you do not find yourself calling him and when he calls you back he'll say he does call you. He has to be calling you and when you are not expecting it. Is he concerned about your well being and wants to make you happy at all costs?
4) Does he ever mention to you about finally meeting his family and wishing to meet your parents as well? If he does then he is really in love with you because if he is not interested to you he wouldn't even bother to meet your family nor he would bother to introduce you to his parents.
5) Is he touching you and hold you when he is with you. Does he show you affection when you are alone? This can be a real big sign he does care for you because he will show you that he loves you with his touch.
6) Finally does he tell you he loves you? without you saying it to him first. Does he plans his future with you? If he does then you are important to him and he is definitely in love with you and wants to spend the rest of his life for you. He would mostly talk of living together, marriage or kids.
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