Why Love is so Confusing?

Love is the most fulfilling and desirable feeling in a man's life. Everyone one to love and be love. Yet, why there are so many debate about love. Love become so confusing , but why?

Love is the most highly over used and misused word in English language. It is applied and attached to any kind of human reaction and experience. Do you really love chocolate, a particular breakfast cereal or model of automobile? We are living in a consumaristic world. Many Advertisement tell us that we do and our off-handed comments or preferences indicate that we do. But, is that what we really what we want or are the advertisements and cultural clichés we use adding to our confusion about love?

We are living in a society that objectifies on everything that we need to do. We are losing our own self to discover who we really are. Because the media are telling us that appearance are more important: To have a good looks, a handsomely pretty and expensive car, a signature wrist, a designer clothes, purses, bags and shoes. That's what the world want us to be. Though I can't see any bad in it especially if we are guided good enough by our parents. But we are losing are own objective because we see love as like the object that is in our surrounding. We fail to see and experience the real essence of love. We easily fall in love as if we are walking on the water that there is no end but once we lost everything. There we don't have a foundation and the love that we thought we have banished easily because what we felt before was not really love. But a love that we set on our own. Without realizing that love just come in a mysterious way.

I remember the song: Love moves in mysterious way.

There are so many tv series now about complicated relationship. The last TV series I've seen was about a young man inlove with a young woman in town whom the girl inlove with another man. Still, At the same time another beautiful young woman, who use to be married to the nephew professes love for the older leading male character and her older brother is in love with the first beautiful young woman. Complicated? Yes. Confusing?it is all just TV drama and not to be taken seriously. Never-the-less, it adds to the confusion about love. It distorts our point of view and understanding of what love is? On the tv series love is about possession. The plots turn around one character having or possessing another, losing possession and regaining it again. People become love objects and this model of love and relationships is broadcast to millions, for hundreds of hours every week. Most of us know that what we are seeing isn’t love but none the less we are left confused. We know this isn’t love but what is it?

Love is the most profound and fulfilling experience humans can have. We must protect our heart and our love.

Take a Hold on the One you Love

Love? Love comes only once in a life time, so once it come do not let it pass by.
When love knock on your heart let it in immidiately because it will come and go once a person isn't ready yet to accept it. Once you didn't grab it you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Do not let it happen to you. If you realize that you are inlove with each other make it sure that your relationships will work. Do everthing that you can to enjoy each other company.

Love every moment that you both have together and let each other know just how much you love each other. With my boyfriend I make it sure that he new what I felt toward him. Before I found it hard to commit to someone because I have taken care of myself my whole life. And I always protect myself from heartache. However, when I open my heart with this guy I realize that love is all that matter and I accepted him being who he is. I believe that love is the greatest force in a person's life. When you lost someone you love as if half of your life was gone. Now, with the man I love I always find time to talk to him and make him feel that he's the man I love and cherish.


Love will stand the test of time if people work at it. Nothing will ever comes this easy but its worth the work by both people. Love really is the greatest feeling between a man and a woman. Love always unite both people together. Respect for each other is one of the main ingredient in a relationship. I hope once you find the one you'll love keep him/her and don't let it go. I found mine, my Francesco, mio angelo azzurro.